A couple laughing together beside a park fountain

Life. Fijnli. Together.

Less swiping.
More living.

fijnli helps you meet people for dating or friendship through a small number of thoughtful suggestions, personal introductions and ideas for meeting in real life.

How fijnli works

Early access

Start with 14 days of Premium.

Sign up for early access with your email before the app launches. When fijnli launches, you’ll get 14 days of Premium for free.

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One app. Two clear intentions.

What are you
looking for?

New friends to make plans with, or someone for a relationship? You decide. Dating and Friends have separate suggestions and connections—friendship never turns into a dating connection automatically.

Six friends sharing dinner together

fijnli Friends

Make plans together.

Meet people nearby who share your interests and have time for similar activities. Up to five new suggestions a day, without an endless feed.

A couple enjoying a relaxed date by the river with their bikes

fijnli Dating

Take time to get to know someone.

See up to eight selected people in a steady weekly window. Take your time with each profile and reach out with a personal introduction.

How fijnli works

From your profile to meeting in real life.

You don’t have to judge anyone in seconds. fijnli gives every new connection a thoughtful starting point.

Say what you’re looking for.

Create your profile and choose Dating or Friends. Your interests, activities and approximate distance help us find suitable suggestions.

Explore at your own pace.

You see a limited selection instead of a constant stream of profiles. If nobody nearby is a fit right now, fijnli won’t fill the list just for the sake of it.

Reach out personally.

Like someone’s profile? Send an introduction. Your conversation opens only after the other person accepts.

Meet in real life.

If you both want to, plan to meet in a public place. You each decide whether and how the connection continues.

Why fijnli is different

Less pressure. More intention.

A limited number of suggestions

Up to eight dating profiles per week or five Friends profiles per day.

Connections with consent

A personal introduction instead of public likes. You can chat after it’s accepted.

No paying for visibility

Premium adds convenience, not extra suggestions or purchased reach.

Real-life plans

Shared activities and small groups give getting to know each other a natural occasion.

One shared interest.
A small group.
A real-life meetup.

Friends Circles: Four to eight people meet regularly around an interest they share.

Dating groups: Four to six singles get together for a specific activity.

You know the purpose before joining. The first meetup takes place in a public spot. Afterwards, everyone can decide privately who they would like to see again. A direct connection forms only when both people are interested.

A small group getting to know each other at a pottery class

Safety comes first.

You decide
what feels right.

fijnli is for adults aged 18 and over and requires age verification. You choose whether you’re visible for Dating or Friends. You can block people, report behaviour or pause your profile. Meetups are intended for public places.

18+Age verification

Before a profile becomes visible to others.

Small groups

A clear purpose and manageable meetups.

○Your choice

A conversation or further contact requires consent.